being a second shooter is a unique opportunity to learn
Whether you're just starting in wedding photography or assisting a seasoned pro, being a second shooter is a unique opportunity to learn, support, and build your portfolio. But it comes with its own responsibilities. I've been enjoying second shooting wedding's the last few years and I'm here's to tell how to stand out — in a good way — so that lead photographers will continue hiring you!
- Respect the Lead Photographer’s Vision: Your role is to support, not to compete. Stay in sync with the lead photographer's style, direction, and priorities. Ask for a shot list or style guide ahead of time and defer to their lead during the event — including where to stand, when to shoot, and how to interact with the couple and guests.
- Capture the Unseen Moments: While the lead focuses on must-have shots (like the first kiss or first dance), your job is to fill in the gaps. Look for candid reactions, behind-the-scenes emotions, wide angles, venue details, and anything the lead may miss. These often become some of the couple’s favorite memories.
- Stay Professional and Discreet: Dress appropriately, arrive early, and be prepared. Keep communication low-key and never interrupt key moments. Avoid overstepping — for example, don’t hand out your own business cards or promote your brand unless the lead has given permission.
- Bring Backup Gear (and Know How to Use It): You don’t need to own the latest and most expensive equipment, but you should carry reliable gear: a second camera body, extra batteries, and lenses that complement what the lead uses. Be ready for fast-paced changes — from dimly lit ceremonies to outdoor receptions — and shoot confidently in any setting.
- Ask Questions (After the Event): Weddings are not the time to slow down the team with on-the-spot lessons. But after the day is done, follow up with the lead for feedback. Ask what went well, what could be improved, and how you can be a better asset next time. Showing humility and a desire to grow makes you someone people want to hire again!
Being a second shooter is about teamwork, trust, and storytelling. Show up prepared, stay in sync with the lead, and focus on capturing meaningful moments the lead might not be focused on. Do that well, and you’ll build not just experience, but a strong reputation in the industry.
Live in the Wilmington, North Carolina area and are ready to book Captured by Kait Photography for your wedding or elopement? Contact me HERE for more information and pricing!
